Oh my… Many things I could share here. First, please be kind to yourself. No matter what, you don’t deserve that verbal bashing you gave yourself. Intuition and spiritual connection aren’t a one-trick pony type of skill—it takes time to hone and that’s a good thing. To really make a difference, our hearts need to be in the right place. And I think yours was a bit misguided with the second girl.

It’s wonderful you wanted to help the first girl, gave her a piece of encouragement, and had the intention of making her day better. But that was your intention—it came from a place of serving versus performing.

Whenever I’ve wanted to “perform” my craft or show off in the midst of someone else’s expectations, it hasn’t worked for me either. And I think that’s because it’s coming from an egoic place.

In regards to boundaries, a wise person knows when to push back on someone who just wants to see our gifts for trick sake, and can say, no thanks—it doesn’t work like that—or whatever. I’ve been humbled a few times when people wanted to see what I could do and I actually thought I needed to prove myself. We don’t. And it’s okay to say so.

Finally, I would bet almost anything that if you had taken a step back from the girl, connected with your intuition from a calm, centered place of service, then you would have had something to share.

If I’m completely wrong in my assumptions of you, please forgive me—I mean no harm. But from one intuitive to another and as a spiritual guide who often works with other spiritual practitioners, I don’t shy away from sharing what I see. And I hope it helps!

If nothing else, be kind to yourself! If there’s any one thing you need to have a successful connection, it’s self-love.

Here’s to always trying again! :)))

Spiritual Guide. Intuitive Channel. Podcaster. When you invest in yourself, the world benefits. Check out my Soul Driven Podcast http://ahnahendrix.com

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Ahna Hendrix

Ahna Hendrix

Spiritual Guide. Intuitive Channel. Podcaster. When you invest in yourself, the world benefits. Check out my Soul Driven Podcast http://ahnahendrix.com

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