Haha, this is hilarious and sooo true! At least for me. Just last night I found myself highly attracted to a stranger who was serious and smoldering.

And I often tell my partner that his jokes and goofiness don’t turn me on when he’s trying to get me in bed… Which is weird because humor is ALL things to me. But I guess that when it comes to sex, I want a mysterious, smoldering man who can “provide”…

Now that I remind the memory tape, it makes sense! Still some digging to do on this one for me, but I love this awareness—thank you! It cracks me up.

We’re such odd creatures. And always love your writing 🫶🏽