EXACTLY. I was on Bumble for all of 5 minutes six years ago and said $&@! this—I’m NOT interested in doing all the heavy lifting! Also, call me old-fashioned but I like being approached by men, for many reasons, but mainly because it helps me know which guy knows what the heck he wants and who’s playing games. And I do NOT waste time with guys who don’t know what they want.

I thought Bumble was a piece of garbage but all my single lady friends these days think it’s wonderful. Thank heavens for your article—now I can articulate why it’s a waste of time! 🙏🏽